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writes:my boy friend is below our status and a dark guy but he likes me very much and is very caring he s with me since few years but we rarely meet at least once in six months....my mom wudnt prefer such a guy as my life partner .he is not earning well too..m confused if i shud let go this guy or accept his pros and cons and settle with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Well I understand that India is a more traditional country. But in any country the human heart is the same. Do you want to settle for who YOUR parents want just so that your parents can be happy, or do you want to pick who YOU want so that your heart can be happy? I think it is a selfish tradition for parents to be too involved in the choice of their children's mate. You should not have to ask us this question here, in an ideal world you should already have been taught by society and family that you should pick the man who makes YOU happy. Because it is YOU who will be living with him for the rest of your life, NOT YOUR FAMILY.
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reader, Christinaa  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 In the end it all comes down to you, you have to think to yourself; Do i want to leave this guy just because my family doesnt approve, or should i stay with him because he makes me happy.
Dont let others live your life for you.
make your own decision hope that helped =]
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