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writes:i feel stressed from the way my family is treating me as i failed my exams so cant go to college. in result im going into depression and seem to take it out on my bf alot. my bf is coming round in 2 weeks to stay and while im at work he going to be at mine. im scared he will be verbally abusive at my family as he knows how they treat me, and im worried they will ban him coming round or me going there *we long distance* he promises he wont but if he sees them mistreating me he will snap. how can i control this problem
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (6 September 2007):
Perhaps he shouldn't stay there for those two weeks. Se if he can find other arrangements. If your family is treating you badly, they might treat him with disrespect since he is there with you.
In the meantime, don't get depressed doing nothing. Use their comments as motivation to get out of your situation. Getting out of your situation means either doing what you can to still get into a college or getting a full-time job and getting out of your parents' house if it is really that bad. If you do what you can to get into a college, you'll have no time to become depressed and your family won't have a reason to bitch and moan since you'll be doing what you can to put the pieces back together.
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