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female
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30-35,
*hrispfaffistheman
writes:Hi everyone i need some advice and fast, Backround info : i had a boyfriend 8 months ago and i really liked him but one night i got a phone call off of him tellin me that he wasn't ready for a girlfriend. I was really hurt because i dated him for a year and i loved him. But after a month i started to get him and i met my current boyfriend who i am head over heels for.Last night i was at a friends 19th birthday party my boyfriend couldn't get off work but he said he'd come later so i went with a friend.my ex boyfriend was there with his new girlfriend.my friend and i got up to dance i felt someone grinding up against me i was totally grossed out i turned around and it was my ex. He wouldn't leavee alone for the whole night even when my boyfriend showed up. The next day me and my boyfriend were at my house a and my ex.showed Up and wouldn't leave for hours and tonight he called me 22 times each time i ignored it. How do i get this guy to leave me alone
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 You've done the right thing by ignoring him. I would imagine that he's finally woken up to the fact that you were a great catch and he's messed up by letting you go. Block him from all forms of communication and tell him if he keeps contacting you, you will involve the police and issue a harrasement notice against him. You have to be extremely blunt with people like this. Get your friends and family to close ranks around you too and be the "wall" between you and him. Hang in there he will get the message eventually.
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