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writes:Me and my ex always used to have arguements over his ex as she lives right next door to him and has knows her family for a long time, him and her brother are really good friends so he's always round her house, even tho he cheated on me before I do trust him, but towards the end of breaking up I started doubting that trust and all he would do is talk about her and her family which I found really annoying, he went on holiday to india, and before he went me and him were fine telling each other how much we were going to miss one and other you know all the sweet relationship stuff, then he left. By the way her ex's family paid for his holiday and he went with his ex's brother. I was fine with it. So the he arived and told me he's happy and that he misses me and he's going to come back a new man, three days later he was really short tempered with me, just randomly having mood swings and then he took my name out of his status and put another girls name up, I asked him who that was and he told me to not worry, I got angry and broke up with him he said to me " I love you I don't think I can ever stop loving you let's talk when I come back" then I stopped talking to him completely cut him of, about 7 days later he called me and said " don't text me or phone me I just want to say hi" then he cut of the phone. I ignored it and 2 days later he came on msn and started telling me about his new tattoo's, 0i got angry and told him that he made his mistake and now he has to live with it, now 4 days later he keeps putting on his status that he is in love with someone and he's going to make it official as soon as he comes back from holiday...... I love him too bitsss, LAST thing I want to do is lose him. I really do not know what to do. I don't want to lose him, and I hate not talking to him. We were together for a year, and he suffers from depression a lot, I don't know what to do someone help me.
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reader, Christopherrrrrrrr +, writes (23 August 2011):
 Hi,I feel for you, I truly do. Although I'm sorry to say, he sounds incredibly imature and in my opinion you should try to get over him. I would state my mortgage on you ignoring me on that if you get a chance!!! Take heart though, on the other hand this could all be a ruse, and appears to be to me. I have played this game of cat and mouse before. But unfotunately if that's how he is then he has to change and prove he loves you and give you a full apology and eplanation (preferably with you clutching his balls while he does!!). You appear to have done very well with how you've handle it so far, don't play his game. This is harsh but his depression isn't your fault, and if he starts all the "I'm going to kill myself bullshit" ignore it and phone his family or better the Police to check on him, he won't do it again!!. I have too much experience of break ups, believe me, to be fooled by his behaviour. I know i'm a bloke and it's easy for me to say, but a week ago I lost my job and the next day my fiance and my step-girls said they were leaving after we argued and she is going on Sept 10th. She has found the place and everything, we haven't spoken since then. The reason I tell you this is because as i've been divorced once also, with other heartbreaks in my back pocket, I do truly know how you're feeling right now. Stay strong, talk to trusted friends, the right thing will happen - it always does. Take care. x
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reader, rossie  +, writes (23 August 2011):
hii honey
please love yourself first
never dependent on any one for love
he doesnt deserve your love with such instable mind
trust me...even if comes back to you also you should be strong that dont fell for him again...you are only sufferer....best experience is my life....am unable to come out from it..bcoz i got married...tc of you
god bless you
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