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*eordiegirl22
writes:I'm having a really bad problem with my ex, he wont leave me alone. One minute he is begging me to get back with him and that he'll do anythin the next, its he doesnt want me back cos it will effect his daughter cos she hasnt seen me for 2 months.I've told him im moving on and ready to date, the person im reffering to is someone i went to school with and havent seen for 10 years. Now my ex is accussing me of cheating with my school friend for the past 4 months and is gonna contact him to tell him to back off.And he is threatening to tell everyone i know and put on his facebook status update that i gave him genitial warts!!!! We both have gential warts, but because it can take a long time to show on your body we cant say who gave it to who, but if it did come down to a recent thing it must b that hes cheated on me cos i certainly havent (he has cheated on ex's in the past, and iv got him flirtin and asking for pictures of girls in our relationship). he swares he hasnt cheated thou!!!!!!!!! i dont believe a word!!!!!!!!!I also slept with someone for a while (just fun - but always safe fun) before i met my ex that had a girlfriend (i did not no at the time). He is now threatenin to tell this lads girlfriend to get me into trouble.im really scared that if he tells everyone i no i have genitial warts then im gonna loose quite a few people and be outcasted at work, i really dont no what to do, i cant get rid of him, and i really need some help its gettin me so so down to the point i can only see one way out of his pyscho grip and thats suicide.PLEASE HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): What an asshole! sounds like my ex! he is such a scum! Tell him to do what ever he likes. Call his bluff. If he puts it on facebbook just deny it. No one needs to know your personal business. Just say it was a near miss as he has it and the minute you found out you backed away from him and that is why he is bitter. He is such a loser. Keep your head up, block his calls change your number if you have to. dont defend yourself to him no more. You do not have to! he is beneath you. Ride through the storm girl you'll be fine!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): Girl,NEVER let a guy rule your fears. If you feel this is getting out of hand, you should go to the police and charge a sexual harrasement case on him. If he goes ahead with the facebook thing, you just act innocent and the victim. DO NOT let him have control over you, so what if you have genital warts, you did nothing wrong. Stop living a life of a fear. Suicidal thoughts are useless. You have so much to look forward to in your life to not be thinking of these thoughts. Please respect yourself.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 August 2008):
Yep that's blackmail and by putting it on facebook it's libel and slander.
Send him this link or print out the article and tell him if she saying anything to anyone then you will take him to court.
http://technology.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/tech_and_web/article4389538.ece
Threaten him with going to the police as well. I don't think he's doing anything illegal but he might not want to risk the fact he is.
Tell him you are sorry that you don't love him any more but that he has to move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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