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writes: My ex girlfriend is going along to the same stag/hen party that i have also been invited to, I am un sure if i should go as i will feel uneasy with her being there, she asked me if i was going and said that would have a inpact on if she would take her new bloke. I get the feeling she does not want to hurt my feelings by taking him, and i would not want to hurt hers by taking someone, should i ask her to go alone.
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reader, juddy +, writes (11 November 2006):
juddy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wish i thought the same, its not until after xmas anyway.
I was told via a friend she thought it not right to take her new bloke as she knows it would upset me, maybe shes just being nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):
I smell reconcilliation!
Let us know, Juddy
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): I think it would be best if one of you decided not to go then the others partners don't feel uncomfortable.
I still like the idea of separate hen and stag parties. This idea is rubbish. It's the last fun time (supposedly) with your pals before you get wed. What rubbish.
Hope it all turns out ok.
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reader, juddy +, writes (10 November 2006):
juddy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits a older couple who are having it
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reader, Lesley +, writes (10 November 2006):
Since when have stag & hen parties been joined???
Hope that's not going to become the new trend!
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reader, juddy +, writes (9 November 2006):
juddy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts a joint hen and stag party, basiclly everybodys invited. Point was i would not feel comfortable with her being with her new bloke, so soon after we have split, she did text me to say she would go alone, just down to me now and if iam happy to go along with her there, kind of hard when i know she will look stuning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006):
I dont understand this kind of stag party where you are bringing dates. So I guess you'll have to judge from your knowledge of the situation if you both can behave with decorum at the event.
If you can, then just agree with her in advance that both of you will refrain from making out with the new person in front of your ex. You both sound like you can be in the same room together. I'd only expect an issue she is all over the new guy or he has his hand up her skirt.
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