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writes:So my ex of about 3 weeks (whom I work with) and I have been getting along great for at a week and a half or so. She has started flirting with me and teasing me. Big, smiles, playful, all that jazz. Then today in the middle of a nice convo, she says "Do I still have stuff at your house?" She knows she does... Anyway, I said yes and she asked if she could come by after work and pick it up.What does this mean? Is she using it to come see me or is she trying to end it completely? I'm totally confused by this due to all the recent flirting.Should I be, OK here is your stuff and let her leave or talk to her about whats been going on? I can't take all the flirting and stuff if there is no chance, it just hurts too much. I've been in high spirits and happy the past week or so then just felt crushed again when I heard this. I never even really got to talk to her about what happened.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (20 September 2011):
 Hi,
I think that if she was flirting with you lately, to me she's making an excuse to see you. Whatever it's, rather you both get back together or not, you need to talk to her about what has happened, and see if there's a chance to get back together. It's better to talk, and know the truth, otherwise you will always be wondering, trying to guess what her motives are, like you are doing now.
Tell her to come by and pick up her stuff, and ask her if she wants to talk to you about were you both stand.
Good luck
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