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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid,my most recent ex and i have been on-and-off for about a year and a half now. both of us have profiles on this site social networking/dating site called meetme (and we had those profiles since before we met). i was fully aware of his presence on the site (i stumbled upon it not long after we first met), but as far as i knew, he had no idea that i had a profile.i logged into my account today and found a notification alerting me that he had viewed my profile. there was another notification saying that someone had asked me an anonymous question. the question was, "who are you talking to?" and it was asked at the same time which he viewed my profile...soo, i'm about 99.9% sure that it came from him. i answered the question saying something along the lines of "i consider myself talking to my most recent ex, but i'm not entirely sure what his opinion is on the situation." a little while later, i was notified that i had a friend request...which turned out to be from...you guessed it. my ex.ever since about a month after our break-up, this guy hasn't been very open with me as far as things like this are concerned--he even has his facebook privacy settings set in a way that prevents me from seeing most of what he posts (i am able to access it through the account of my best friend. he denies having any kind of special settings, by the way). now, though, it appears that he doesn't care what i see and don't see (meetme doesn't allow specific privacy settings to be set; once you become friends with someone, it's all there for them to see).i'm glad that he's apparently choosing to be more open...but at the same time, i keep over-analyzing this situation and wondering what it might mean. does anyone have any thoughts about what the possible meaning of all this is?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2012): Sounds like he's either opening up to you. OR, he could be cyberstalking. If he's sending an anonymopus question, asking you who you're talking to, that's a DEFINITE Red Flag, right there.
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