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writes: Im not quite sure how to out this but I have a very stressful life due to my parents and my lousy brother. On top of that my grandma's just died not even a week apart and it is a very stressful time.Before all of this i had been dating a girl she is 14 going on 15 and im 16 going on 17 anyway i had broken up with her for 2 reasons first her parents didnt like me due to my reputation which they found out from one of my friends which has a crush on me, and because i felt like she was a cheater. She went to kings island with this guy she didnt even know and before the end of the night she was holding hands and cuddling with him and this is when we were still going out and when i was away for a little bit she had started talking to this other guy.I really love her and i mean really love her i couldnt live if it wasnt for her. I know your thinking its just a teen thing but i really love her but she is rushing for us to get back together and have you ever heard you can love someone unless you love yourself well thats me and im just having a really hard time trying to think of a way to tell her without her taking it the wrong way i love her so much please help.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (19 February 2006):
 There is an awful lot going on here and it seems to me that it is all becoming jumbled. You are going through alot and are bound to feel alot of different emotions and maybe even confused. The stress is coming from everything piling up ontop of you. Thus the first thing I think you need to do is sit down and take one thing at a time.
Starting at the top; what is it about your parents and brother that makes them 'lousy'? Have you talked to your family about how you are feeling about the death of your grandparents? Is there somebody you can talk to about this because obviously you are still grieveing and are probably a little in shock. You need to give yourself time and space to grieve and not expect yourself just to cope with it. Mourning your loss is natural and people will understand if you approach them, dont try and be strong and 'keep up apperences' for there own sake and don't be afraid to open up to people you will find that those closest too you will be very supportive and help you through this.
Moving onto your relationship i think you need to deal with this again seperately an at your own pace. The first thing I would say is does she know what you are going through? If she doesnt maybe you should tell her. Tell her how you feel about her but explain that you are going through alot right now and just need to deal with that. Hopefully she will respect that and give you space to do that and be there for you. If you are open and honest and tell her about the situation again I think you will find she will understand. Hope that helps. Good luck with everything.
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