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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey I recently split up with my ex fiance who I have been engaged to for nearly a year and he has been texting me saying he still loves me and wants me back but I don't think I can trust him not to leave me again throughout our relationship I used to find messages to other girls with him saying he loved them and was going to leave me for them .. I still love him and want him back but I'm not sure if its a good decision .. I also made the mistake of having sex with someone after we split up while I was drunk and I don't know if I should tell him .. Can anyone help me .. Also I'm 18 and currently on anti-depressants which could be a reason for me being paranoid !! Help please :(
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (10 October 2011):
 No, I don't think it's a good idea to take your former fiance back. Not enough time has passed for him to have made any real changes in his life and to determine how solid those changes are.
It's definitely not in your best interest to invest yourself in a person or in a situation that will cause you considerrable stress and uncertainty. The longer he's in your life the more damaged and paranoid you will become.
Spare yourself the temptation and cut him out of your life completely.
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