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writes: Hey guys, so this is REALLY annoying me. My ex girlfriend hangs all over my best friends and talks and hangs out with me, but generally, I get way less attention from her. It's really starting to get on my nerves as I don't deserve this. Last night, my best friend was talking to her, and talked to her about what her feelings for me were and he said that he should hang out more with me, not be afraid to cuddle, and a bunch more stuff. Her explanation was that she loves me but is not necessarily in love with me and doesn't want to lead me on. However, she admits that there could be more feelings later on but she is just unsure about things right now. He then told her not to play games and when the time came when she did want to kiss me and did want to take things to a physical level, to tell me. He said that she seemed to understand what he was saying and agreed with him. I was happy to hear this as I am dying to take her out and just have a good time or stay in and watch a movie every now and again, even if it doesn't lead to more initially. I want more at some point and believe it will come, but I can wait.Anyway, after they talked and rejoined the party, it seemed as though they didn't even have a talk. She was back to herself. I know it's only been a night, but this is driving me nuts. What do you guys think?Mike
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