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writes:I'm fourteen and am going to high school next year, my most recent ex boyfriend is turning sixteen in December and is going to be a junior next year. A week ago, he broke up with me after i said that i loved him, and that he thought he loved me too but thought that the relationship didn't feel right and didn't have a "spark". But he still admitts having feelings for me and is really sad that he broke up with me and isn't sure what to do. I still talk to him and we act as friends but he says he still thinks about me alot. I'm not sure how to handle this. My friends tell me to get over him but I only want him back. Someone said that it was because I was too young for him and he didn't want to be dating a middle schooler. Is that a possibility?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (12 June 2010):
 First of all, your friends are right. His breaking up with you has nothing to do with you. He is young like you are, and young guys like him are always wondering if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, so he refuses to be tied down and monogamous. In short, you met him 10 years too early.
Also, you're 14! You shouldn't tie yourself down to one guy either! At your age, it's all about experiences. You're too young to do extensive pining for one confused guy. Ditch him, and you'll have someone tons better than him.
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