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writes: How do I get my ex-wife to leave me alone. We have children so she cannot completely go away but is certainly ruining all of my new relationships
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): Tel the stupid jealous bitch to back off otherwise you'll get a court order for her to STAY AWAY from the house and the children!!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (28 June 2006):
 What is it that she is doing to ruin your relationships ? Theres not much detail to go on. If she still needs to play a part in your life because of your children then so be it, be calmly and politley tell her there is no future for the two of you and that you would rather keep it amicable for the kids sake and you would appreciate it if she understood this and moved on as best she can with her life too. Without knowing what it is shes doing, all I can say is be a bigger person than her and dont let it! I know its easier said than done, shes obviously done it once knows this and got away with it and you let her! She cant let go, which we cant all do straight off, shes jealous that someone else can get close to you and she cant. Maybe just sit with her adult to adult and clear the air, tell her that your always going to figure in her life shes the mother of your children, but as far as a reltionship for the two of you goes thats it. Tell her that shes got to move on, as you are trying to and that we cannot live in the past, tell her you will always be there for her but not in a together manner, but as the mother of your children, so it goes without saying that you will look out for her etc... Shes feeling left out so will try to come between anything new that you have, and only time can make her see that shes okay on her own, or failing that get her a new man! If shes got her attention focused on someone else she wont be so keen to mess up things for you as she will have her own life to get back to!
Take care x
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