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anonymous
writes:heya..im in abit of a pickle at the moment! its a long one guys...there is this guy from school and we have history, we got together after GCSEs just as a one nyt stand except he had a girlfriend at the time... Then christams 2006 (xmas b4 last) it was midnight and he rang me up asking me to go rwnd for an exmas drink, so stupidly i did and i found out he'd split with his gf, we ended up kissing and then he took me out a few days after to a pizza place. We spent a fair amount of time and i got attached to him. but on valentines day my best m8 had a party and he came and completely ignored me and iv since found out he had slept with a girl in my best m8s bed that night. he really hurt me and i promised mysel id never get involoved with a guy like that agin... but last summer i seen him out in a club and we ended up sleeping together again...and then for about 3 months we were just sleeping partners...but again i stupidly got attached to him :(then one week i found out he'd got a new girlfriend i was absolutely gutted and crushed...this was just b4 xmas this year. but we became mates again and then this week he came up to me at a party and basically said to me how much he'd missed me and realised what he'd thrown away and seemed extremely genuine about it all and really apologetic...he said that once his girlfriend returned from holiday he was going to split up with her and he wants to get back with me. again this has screwed my head up BIG TIME! what am i supposed to do?? im so confused and so is he! is he genuine or just using me again?
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reader, yeh ... +, writes (10 April 2008):
i think that you shouldn't trust him. he may like you alot but there is no promise that he wont cheat on you like previous people. dont stop being friends with him or seeing him once in a while but try going on dates with some other guys to remind you how much he is messing you around. if a guy makes a mistake once its ok but more than that and there is a problem.
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