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My ex keeps telling me he loves me, but I want to make a go of it with the new guy, how do I move on ??

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Question - (5 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid.

I am so hurt inside. me and x broke up about 2 months ago. i realy loved him and still do. he treated me realy bad. we stayed together for over year. and where together for over 2.5 years. since then i met someone else. he is kind and sweet he realy is the nicest guy. opposite from what my x was. this pass weekend i was with my x for one night. i told my new guy and he forgave me. i just cant seem to move on without my x. and he is also going overseas next month. we still have contact he realy makes life hard for me. keeps on telling me he is loves me.... i realy dont want to hurt my new guy. how can i move on.... please help me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007):

What guy would you rather be with ? Someone who treats you badly and has no respect what so ever for you or the latter?

I have been bad relationships in the past, where the guy just used me for sex. Now I am with a great guy who loves me for myself and treats me how every woman should be treated RESPECT. You can either kick this loser to the kerb or enjoy your new relationship with this wonderful and tolerant guy, who puts up with you cheating on him with your ex. Though I don't think you deserve the present guy as you have treated him with as much respect as your ex has given you. Sorry if I sound harsh, but this new guy needs to be treated a lot better than you have been treating him lately and will have the sense to wake up and smell the coffee and dump an undeserving person like you.

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