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writes:My ex, and I broke up after a few years a couple of months ago. We both made some mistakes, and miscommunication on both of our parts caused it. We both have told each other that we wished it hadn't had happened. I tried to pursue her, soon after we broke up. I told her how I felt then, and she stated she needed some time/space. A little over a week ago, she wrote me an email, and we started talking again. We have not been out together, yet, however we have talked quite a bit and seen each other, but only for a few minutes. She told me that she loves me, and would like to be great friends and see where it goes, then told me that she would like to start over again where we began, and I am the only one that she is interested in, and that she is not dating anyone. There is at least one man that she hangs out with alot, and he is interested in her. She claims that she is not interested in him. There is someone who is interested in me, and we have went out, but it isn't serious as I would like to have my ex back.When we first got together, I pursued her, and she has told me that she really liked that about me, and hinted that she wants me to do that to get her back. So....How do I go about doing this? We talk everyday, she is on vacation now, and has talked to me everyday. I know she is also talking to the other guy as well, but I believe if she wasn't interested in me, she wouldn't consider talking to me. She is coming back in a little over a week, so I have some time to form a plan, but I feel a little clueless about how to get her back. She wants to take it slow, as do I, so time is really on both of our sides, however I do not want to lose her, again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009): Think hard. If you've lost her once, I'm sure she's not going to be willing to go through all that again, and you mentioned you aren't either. Are you ready for that? Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with this person? If not, take things REALLY slow. As in, just be friends. Do not lead her on. Let her know exactly how you feel, she just might feel the same. Good luck.
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