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My ex is text-pesting me what do I do?

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Question - (30 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend broke up with me about three years ago and he has been somewhat of an annoyance for about two years. Initially when he broke up with me he said that he has changed and did not feel the same way he once did about me. That was really hard for me to deal with as I was really in love with him. However he still sent me suggestive text messages and constantly asked me to have phone sex with him.

This year has been worse. He texts me on a daily basis saying "hey sexy" "what are you wearing" "what panties do you have on" "I wish I could f**k you". Along with that he sends me emails which contain pictures if his erect penis and saying that I do this to him.

Okay this is totally inappropriate, I know he dont care about me cause he never wants to talk about anything else, all he wants me to do is tease him and have phone sex. I ask him why he "likes me so much and clearly he lies saying that I am an independant woman who knows what she wants in life, who is going to med school, very smart and has a wonderful personality.

Okay really he doesnt even ask about my studies or anything. What do you guys make of this? Why does he break up with me and still play with my mind like this? He wont stop and I have told him we are just friends and I get really annoyed when you send me this stuff. What is with this guy??

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A female reader, trixi United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2008):

trixi agony aunti dont like the sound of him one bit.

he's messing with your head & trying purposly to wind you up.

you should change your number & stay away from him.

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