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My ex is dating a 14 year old and trying to sabotage my new relationship!

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Question - (14 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *hitefox writes:

i have split from my ex boyfriend for nearly a year now.

he had ended our relationship for a couple of weeks and got with a 14yr old and i will say he is 19yrs old. whilst he was out with his new girlfriend i was in my flat with his best friend who i have known longer than my ex.

his best friend told me he loved me and we started to make out which lead to sex later on. when my ex boyfriend found out he wanted to kill his best friend. my ex had come over to my flat and told me he loved me and he wanted to get back together so bein a fool i did. for the next couple of months we argued like mad. i later found out he was still in touch with his 14yr old ex so i confronted him and to my horror he admitted he was txting her and that he wanted to be with her and that he had only strung me along because he wanted to get me back for sleeping with his best friend.

i have now recently got with my exs best friend and we are happy but my ex keeps threatening him because he is with me can anyone help and tell me what i can do to get my ex out of our lifes for good before he ruins my relationship because i am happy and in love and i dont want my ex jepordising it help!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2009):

There's nothing you can do other that to say it's over and that you've moved on. I would also suggest that both you and your boyfriend completely cut contact all together. He's no good for you, and he can't be that good a freind to your boyfriend either. Change your numbers, e-mail. Everything. Then every time he says anything, jsut tell him it's over and you've moved on.

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