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My ex husbands wife is causing alot of problems

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Question - (6 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, *wolfe writes:

I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask this. About 3 years ago my husband of 16 years started an online affair with an internet whore she was actually a whore she advertised on Myspace all she did and what she was into after about a year of this he decided he was in love with her and told me he was moving her here to Arkansas from Maryland I was devestated I begged and made a fool out od myself but finally just gave up I married again and I'm trying my best to move on I still have feeling for my first husband but I don't bother him we all live in a small town and I just don't want to look like an idiot anymore but this woman has been writing stuff on Myspace and Facebook stuff about my marriage that was not true she has even went as far as to post on Facebook that I was stealing drugs and that I was crazy and wished I would leave them alone this was just a month ago and I have not talked to either one of them in over 2 years I called my ex and asked him why she was doing that he said he didn't know she was even getting on the internet but he would say something to her is there anything I can do myself to get her to stop? Also now she has found God and is going to pray for me because I have hatred in my heart but she doesn't think she did anything wrong.

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A female reader, Jwolfe United States +, writes (6 August 2010):

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Jwolfe agony auntThanks to all who have answered. The main problem with all this is my daughter was reading her stuff and telling me so not only did my chile lose her father now his wife is writing lies about me so I sat down wrote a 5 page letter to this woman and told her everything she was sayings was lies laid out our whole 16 years to her and told her we were not just married we had a life we built together she told everyone that him and her were soul mates and meant to be I told her my ex had gotten addicted to porn and she fulfilled and his kinky dreams because I wouldn't she also had an agenda at the time her husband had been trying to divorce her and she would cry and beg him not to leave and my husband was just at the right place if it wasn't her it would have been some other slut her husband even called mine and told him thank you for giving him an easy out and everyone in this small town knows me and knows what she said was not true but it was the fact she had my husband I was not giving her my memories and told her to pretend I didn't exsist she had no problem doing it while I was married she should not have a problem now well all of a sudden she has found God and doing bible study and all that crap and she going to pray for people who have hatred in their hearts. It has been causeing a strain on my marriage but maybe this will give me closure. Again thank you.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (6 August 2010):

Honeypie agony auntJebus!

Block her from your MySpace and DELETE yourself from hers, STOP looking at her MySpace,if it is absolute BS what she writes ignore it.

You COULD report her for libel to MySpace.

Consider this though....... MAYBE, just maybe, the stuff she is posting is stuff you EX told her... to make YOU look bad and give him an excuse to cheat with HER.

Cut all contact with oth of them, they deserve each other.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (6 August 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntForce yourself to ignore the idiot. She'll give it up eventually, especially if she doesn't get a response from you. Nobody will believe her rants anyway.

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