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writes:HiI have been friends with my ex-girlfriend for round about two months. Lately all the feelings I had for her back then have come back. She is in a bad relationship with this other guy, she complains about everything he does wrong to me, and I feel as if I have another chance again. She told me the other day that she was considering finishing with him, and I was all for it, but last night I told her how i felt and asked how she felt about me on the phone and all she said was "I don't know". I think it's blatently obvious how you might feel about someone isn't it?How can you not know? I feel confused, it feels as if she is generally trying to shoot me down in a gentle way but I'm so confused. Please HelpThanks
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reader, Wild +, writes (29 November 2005):
boy understand ur situation,have been there myself.ask her again how she feels about you,not over the phone plzzzz.if she is not sure then it means she is not into you,she is around simple bcoz she is stresed out by her current relationship.she is just using you to comfort her in this time of trouble.the second option would be to take things slowly until she sort things out then you can bring the subject again for discussion.its always a very risky to propose when the person is vulnarablydo not ever push her into coming back to you,you do that,history will repeat itself once she finds someone else.good luck my man!!!heish!!!! girl!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): She does not want to renew her relationship with you. She wants you for a sounding board, and a " friend" only when she needs you. Stop dreaming that she is going to come back to you. If you are tired of hearing her complaints about the new guy, tell her to deal with the issues without you. She didn't have any trouble ending your relationship, so she certainly can end the relationship with the new boyfriend, too. For your own mental health, cool it with her, and try to find someone new in your own life. You are treading water waiting for the sunken ship to rise from the seas. Swim to shore and find a new ship!
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