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writes:hi need some advice so here goes...i met my gf may 2007 she is 29 im 36 to be honest i was not really in to her to start but feelings developed she told me about her past and how she was raped 5 yrs ago , ourrelationship was always rocky especially when alcohol was involved we would break up and make up constantly we brought out the worst in each other most of the time but always loved each other.anyway we split about 2 -3 months ago i found it hard , we split because i grabbed her and threw her out she pushed me to my limit anyway 2 months had gone by i was ok untill she walked in the pub with her new bf 3 weeks ago , i could tell she wasn't in to him but that was not my prob, she told me we had to talk about money i owed her so we began to talk, she said i never thought i had feelingsfor u till i saw u just now , anyway we got back together ,took it slow enjoyed our company and poured our hearts out together . iwas so commited this time to make it work more than ever and she seemed keen initially, towards the end of the week she changed her mind saying she bottled it ,but found out she was texting other guys , i said to her ok fine and mentioned in conversation 2 days later i cud have a date the weekend , she was not impressed.2 days after i arranged to meet her in the pub to give her clothes back we both had a few drinks and she told me about her ordeal in detail it was emotional wshe left the pub started to act wierd jumping on cars kicking in doors and shouting abuse at some guy saying u want it have it have yr way wiv me etc.... very strange. i kinda get the feeling she is seeing someone else , this is hard for me i love her to bits and im having trouble moving on any advice please ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): Hi, sorry one minute you are together the next minute you are breaking up.. doesn't sound like a match made in heaven does it? Regardless of whether you love her, she has some emotional issues to sort out.. jumping on cars?? Very erratic behaviour, and before you get back with her, I would suggest she gets her head, and emotions under control first, and alcohol is never a good match in these situations.
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