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36-40,
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writes:My ex and I were still talking after we broke up and was still intimidate and then one day he got married,he then told me and ask to still be my friend but says he's not in love with her but he did what was best for him right now. Is his marriage going to work and why do he want me to be his friend? He says I am still his baby and he still love me but he is married,now?
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reader, lenahcoco +, writes (20 August 2008):
Ok I am not married but I had to respond because I myself do the same thing your ex boyfriend does. I seem to always keep in touch with ex boyfriends especially one in particular. I think there is a need to keep the attention and also to know that you have someone to fall back on. Your ex is probably insecure and needs lots of attention. Obviously his marriage will not last because he has not made a clean break with his e's and dedicated himself to her. Some people also just like messing with girls heads as a power thing. Either way it is not healthy for you and if you can you should try to stop talking to him as it will only confuse you and hurt your heart. It may also keep you from having a new healthy relationship with someone else. Someone who will love you and only you!!!
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