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writes: How do I get over this? I never want to see him AGAIN! but have too as we have kids.He dumped me to be with her. We were together seven years. Didn't want to see me or his kids. I focused on my self for six months. Lost weight started enjoying myself. He noticed I changed. I thought I was over him till he wanted me back. I took him back. Were together 2 weeks. He gave me Herpes and has now left again.Help me! I feel like such a fool! I was on top and went back. How can I continue going forward and feel more positive about myself. I feel used and have lost all the self esteem that I had gained back before. I wish I was the winner and just walked on the first time but I am the loser again and he has all my power.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for taking the time to listen. Im having a much better day today thankyou. You are so right just because he has brought a house doesnt make him a better person. I am gonna try and do what I did before and focus on me and the kids. Thankyou again. Really appreciate your advice. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for taking the time to listen. Im having a much better day today thankyou. You are so right just because he has brought a house doesnt make him a better person. I am gonna try and do what I did before and focus on me and the kids. Thankyou again. Really appreciate your advice. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou. I know that I did it before but some how it just seems so much harder doing it again. I know I can but I hate that he is back with the girl he left more for. He found a way of getting back in and now I am worse off than I was before. The hurt, the betrayal, the sadness, the feelings of failure are just so overwhelming. I cant believe what I have become.
When I was with him I was succesful and really thought we get married and raise out kids the best way. Now I am on benefits, in a council flat, with no job and with an STD. A single mum of three. I just think no ones will ever want me. Find it hard to hold my head up. The future seems bleek. he has just bought a house with the girl, stop paying me maintenace. Ive had to go CSA. Sorry for ranting on just feel so angry!!
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