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My ex found out I slept with my female best friend, and I don't want this spreading around. I denied, what next?

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Question - (14 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am a 25 year old girl who broke up with my fiance in March. Everything was okay but we just agreed that we wanted different things so we decided to end it. We sold the house and i moved in with my dad. Anyway, over the last few months i have been making the most of my freedom and going out with my friends alot. This one particular evening i got really drunk and ended up sleeping with my best friend who is also a girl. I put it down to curiosity and tbh i didnt really feel comfortable with it. I have got it out my system now and know for sure that im not that way. Anyway, my best friend has told a number of people (including her bf who seems fine with it???) and its got back to my ex fiance who is making a big deal of it, i have denied it but i dont know what to say to him as i rarely have anything to do with him but i dont want this spreading around. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

Your 'best friend' isn't very discreet is she?

Treat her in exactly the same way that you would treat a man if he went shouting his mouth off about your sex life and bragging to all his mates.

What you do in your private life has nothing to do with anyone else. Your ex is probably now thinking "Wow - chance of a threesome here!"

Tell him to keep his nose out of your business, he's in the past now.

Phil

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