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writes:Me and my ex have been apart for 4 months now (after a brilliant relationship) and she's been seeing someone else for three months, however a week ago they broke up. She broke up with him because it wasn't right and she doesn't have time for a boyfriend although she still says it's too complicated. I still love her and she knows that. We've been talking more recently and are planning on doing things together (like go to town, pictures etc.) but today (after flirting with me on the phone last night) she saw him and says she still loves him and can't see me because he doesn't want her to. She then told me she only wants to be friends.What do you think about this situation? What should I do? What are her feelings?
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reader, lostinwilderness +, writes (23 March 2008):
It sounds like she is playing with your feelings as he is playing with hers. You two are probably really young and time will come when you will remember her fondly but you will be glad that you did not end up together as she would always be looking around for the next man to break her heart and you would have yours broken over and over again.
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reader, chewbear123  +, writes (23 March 2008):
hmm that seems like she is confused...i know that sometimes i am that way (as all women or girls are at some point) and it's a very confusing thing...i think you should sit down with her, and talk to her just like she's your friend and nothing ever went on as far as bf/gf and cheating is concerned and figure out exactly what is going on in her head. it works. trust me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): I think she is trying to avoid her feeling for you, by being with somebody else and hiding love. she doesn't want to hurt you and is protecting you (so she thinks). talk to her and tell her you love everything about her and always will and she is apart of you .x
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