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30-35,
*ariela
writes:My problem is that if madly in love with my ex boyfriend. We seemed like the perfect couple we were always happy.. We were together for 3 years 8 months and after 2 years of dating i found out he was cheating on me with my bestfriend in the whole world ( those were my thoughts toward her) well he cheated on me and i forgave him.... Now last month i found out he was seen with my other friend and he was talking and texting with her more then me aperantly he is cheating on me. It has happen so many times but im so unsure of his feeligs towards me because he always gets jelous and i think he is a little agrasive with me.... He is 5 years older them me.I love him because we been together for such a long time but if dont know what to do should i forgive him and go back with him???? even though he did cheat on me when i have never done it to him??? or should i just move on???? I really need help!!!
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reader, Mariela +, writes (7 April 2009):
Mariela is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well thanz for the advice im feeling a little more sure about myself, i guess im not gona look back and move on its true i dont need someone like that in my life...(Mod Note: Please turn off the caps next time.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Oh my gosh, he is a perv! Dump this loser now, Jessica here hit the nail on the head!
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reader, dimpleszzz  +, writes (7 April 2009):
why are you not asking your friends this? is it because your not talking to any of them because of this insecure muppet!! He obviously has no respect for you, I would not have this guy in a lucky bag! you need to forget the little good he brought to your life and start thinking about the years you have have wasted and all the shit he has brought you and all the nights you cried over him! GET RID OF HIM. Start again it will be hard, but do it for you! have more respect for yourself lady! ive been through this,I took this advice im giving you now, im so much happier now than i ever was with him, looking back i feel i have wasted so much time and hes still doing the same to other girls! you will feel so much stronger.
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (7 April 2009):
 Just walk away. Believe me, you will be better off for it in the long run. Find someone who appreciates you, cause this clown obviously doesn't!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): honey he did it twice already what makes u think he wouldnt do it again and it is even easy for u to make a choice he did it with people u had close and dear to u who u call friends. there are not ur friends .u are giving him an invitation to do it again if u go back.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (7 April 2009):
 Honey, if he is 5 years older than you then he is one of those scum bags who preys on the insecurities of young girls like you and your supposed friends.
Why are you so willing to dump your friends and not him? It sounds like he has manipulated you into "needing" him, and he probably did the same to them.
I can't tell you how to fix your friendships, but I think you already know that you have no business being with a loser like him. And nothing against you, but why can't he get a girl his own age? Why is he trolling the high schools to find a date?
Twice a cheater always a cheater. Find someone who knows how lucky they are to have you.
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