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writes: dear cupid,Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a week ago and i still am completely in love with him and still really care for him but i don't know what to do. He says he wants to date other girls and have some freedom, but he still wants to be with me like he wants to date me but not go "steady" and he still want to have sex with me, should i have sex with him even though were broken up? and should i wait for him to come back to me because he still loves me or should i move on? heartbrokenlove
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 February 2006):
 Get a grip on your pride, he is using you, dont let him, he does not want you he just wants a convenient bed partner when he has failed to score at a club or down the pub.
He wants casual sex but wants good old reliable ex to give him sexual relief when there is no one else, he does not love you he just wants to use you.
Bin him!!!
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (23 February 2006):
 stop wasting your time on him,he is a selfish man and he does not deserve you, go find yourself a man thats going to commit to you, if you keep seeing this guy your just going to be left heartbroken, his just using you for a booty call and i think its very cruel that his trying to have sex with you but does not want to commit to anything even when he knows your totally in love with him, you need to put your foot down girl, tell him his either going to be with you in a relationship or he can hit the road, i know its difficult but laying down the law might open his eyes and it will tell you weather or not his worth it, and you never know if you have nothing to do with him he might see the light and try get you back, because i bet it wont take him long to realise what his lost, giving into his game by having sex with him tells him that your very easy to manipulate and he thinks that his won, please dont let him get away with this, ignore him dont answer his call dont invite him over for a couple of months, if he keeps calling after that and begs for you back and wants ot be with you then id maybe give him second chance but if he doesnt call and does not try get you back then you know he was not the one and its best to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): You shouldn't be asking other people about your questions. The question is, do you want him to have sex with you? Do you want your relationship with him to be opened? OR do you want to move on? I mean, if it were me, I would move on, but that's me. However, since you are completely in 'love' with him, what are you willing to do to express your love for him?
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