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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend have been trying to stay in contact with me. I answer his phone calls and I return his phone calls. He wants to get back together, still tells me he loves me and he apologizes for hurting me. I have moved on with my life along with raising my daughter. I have been thinking about him a lot. Part of me is saying to get back with him but the other half of me is saying, he needs to find a job and a place of his own for himself and his son. It is really hard for me to believe anything he is telling me because of the lies he's told me in the past. I still love him but not as much as he loves and misses me. I want to be with him but I don't know if I want to be with him. How do I go about this situation?
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 Well hun, in my opinion, a guy who hurts you ain't wroth it. But if you really and I mean REALLY want to get back with him, he needs to get his priorities right - which means that you need to tell him that the only way he's gonna get even close to gettin back with you is for him to get a job and a place of his own. If he truely loves you as much as he says he does, then he will do it. If not, then you'll know that he's really not worth it.
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