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writes:My boyfriend and I recently broke up. It was a mutual decision to separate- we both just fell out of love with each other. Then last night, my best friend told me that he has been trying to make a move on her at school.I know we both agreed to break it off, but I can't help feeling jealous and hurt. We spent the last two years together, we brake up for not even two weeks, and already he's moved on. I feel like the last two years meant nothing to him. What should I do? How can I move on from this? Is he moving on too quickly?I'm also late (about 11 days i think). I thought it might have been the stress of breaking up, but now I'm worried that I might be pregnant. What should I do? And if I am, should I tell him first or should I tell my parents? I know they will kill me!!! PLEASE HELP!!
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reader, Main Man  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 My advice is that you take a pregnancy test & if it's positive tell your ex-boyfirend that your pregnant with his child. Don't worry if your friend says that your saying becuase your jealous of their new found love. a child needs a father as well as a mother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Jetlag
Thanks for the advice. My best friend told me she plans to ignore him and avoid him whenever she can, out of respect for me (god i love her to bits!). She said she knows she will just be the rebound girl and she likes somebody else anyway. But it still hurts to know he's moved on so quickly.
As for being possibly pregnant, I'm just praying that my period will come anyday now. And I am planning on getting that pregnancy test asap. I'm really sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Hope everything worked out for you and thanks again for the advice.
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reader, jetlag  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 First of all. The last two years is always gonna be meaning full for him. He's just doing a move with your best friend just to help him forget about you because I'm sure it hurts him as well. Does your best friend like him too? Your best friend should avoid him. The fact that your ex is being weird flirting with YOUR best friend!
Always keep a head high and look on positive things. You, yourself can flirt with a guy or just even so, spend more time with yourself and with friends!
Get a pregnancy test. But if ever you are pregnant, there are options. If you are not ready, you are NOT ready.
This exact same thing happened to me, thinking me being pregnant will bring my ex back... but no. I had a miscarriage and after that I thought, 'Damn, I was being so freaked out and dramatic over a guy that in the end of the day he was never there and moved on.'
Just be strong. Forget about him. Get a pregnancy test.
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