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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, Why does my ex boyfriend's friends stare at me when i see them out? We broke up a month and a half ago (he broke up with me). every time i have been out since and seen his group of friends, they stare at me so blatantly the whole time, and i dont know why; like they are watching my every move. Even my friends notice it - i know most of them kinda well, but its usally that they stare at me from the other side of the club or bar, i've only physicaly ran into one or two of them and said hi etc., I didnt do anything bad to my ex or anything so its not like they hate me. We broke up suddenly because he just snapped one day and said he was stressed with his mom's sickness and his college work. He's a good guy but said he couldn't deal with eveything that was going on. We were madly in love before that - and i didnt see the break up coming. I still care about him deeply but i haven't contacted him since the breakup. He seemed to need space so im giving it to him. I also havent seen him out and have heard from a mutual friend that he has not been out since we broke up. I just wonder whats going on? Are they mad at me for some reason? Any thoughts (from guys in particular) would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, Xtina356  +, writes (12 May 2010):
I don't think they are mad at you. I think they are watching to see what you are doing to report back to your ex.
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