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writes: Dear readers, Me and my boyfriend have been broken up for almost a month now, and things started off hard, then even harder then for the past week or so things have gotten easier, i've actually adjusted to being apart although sumtimez i miss him.He has the worst anger problem and is really possessive over me, with or without me. Thing is when we were going out i never could speak to certain boyz even his friends. This guy that i always thought was pretty hot, wanted to meet up with me 2night, and so i did because my ex went to a party and i couldnt stand the thought of him enjoyin that i was at home, thoughtlessly i went. I had a great time! but i'm afraid he'll find out. What is the best way to get out of this awful predicament? do i tell him that it was a harmless meetup or do i just not mention it? all we did was drive around for a few hours!If he does react the way i think he will that meaning block me , go off at me never speak to me agen! then wat do i do? do i admitt that i've done wrong in which i dont think i have, or do i explain myself to him what should i do? do i mention it to him like it's nothing? or what do i do? i really dont want him to get angry at me at a time like this because i'm seein him soon to i can figure out what i feel for him or if i do anymore and to i can see him once agen since i havent in awhile! oh , and this guy invited me out agen 2moro? should i go?im really confused! please help asap!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): You broke up with a possessive bf, one month ago. He's an angry guy who didn't allow you to talk to specific people but instead he 'chose' who you could talk to. It seems to me, you were with a fellow who was a controlling, unhealthy person and behaved jealous with you. You are now worried sick about what he thinks? You my dear, are displaying classic symptoms of an down trodden, emotionally abused woman. Be glad that you have escaped from him-be glad that you can now date whom 'you' choose. Never allow a man to treat you this way, again. I recommend before you date any further guys, you get into counselling and work through your own emotional problems and heal from the hurt and pain this ex bf inflicted on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthing is, it's one of his friends! and one of the ones that i wasnt allowed to talk to, the break up has been very hard on me and the only way that i've been copin so far is because he was my friend, i dont wanna be with him anymore but this makes it alot easier that he's there! i dunno ...please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): You really need to cut your ex out of your life. You seem to want to keep him hanging on and that isn't fair. It's very difficult to maintain a healthy relationship with an ex so you may as well forget it.
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