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writes:So me and this guy were dating for two years we broke up but remained good friends..... Last year he moved away n we were still friends we talked on the phone all the time soo finally he get an apartment n i leave home to roommate with him the problem is that i want to have sex with him soo bad hes really flirty we sleep in the same bed we hug n hold each other whenever we go places ppl think were a couple but he says if we cant have sex because we live together n it would ruin everything i have given him oral sex twice n ive only been here a week and a half idk what to i want to sleep with him n he knos it its driving me crazy
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUr rite n its true i dont to sleep with him cuz im horny its been awhile since i had sex or been touched b anybody....... He claims he dosent want sex from me but its hard to tell because he actually humps me sometime im very confused
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 Why do you want to sleep with him? Are you just horny? Then can't you find another guy to have sex with and get it out of your system?
Your ex is pretty double standard if he sleeps in the same bed as you, takes blowjobs, and flirts, but doesn't want to sleep with you. He's practically grooming you up for it.
If you don't want to have sex with him because he's your roomie now, he's your ex, it would be complicated etc, and he actually doesn't want it either, then stop the flirting and get this relationship back down to where it should be: you are room-mates. Nothing more. You can not sleep in the same bed, you can not give blow jobs, you can not flirt etc. Either stick to being room-mates or move out.
You don't want a relationship with him do you? I think you're just horny because you used to be intimate, you know him, and you are living so close now, and you get to be so near him. But, it's just sex! You can go get it elsewhere. Get a lover, get a boyfriend, whatever it takes. If you start to get it elsewhere your roomie will not be interesting at all, trust me. The only reason he's interesting to you now is that he's there, he's available, and you are horny.
My advice to you is to stay clear and stick to your boundaries as room-mates. If you can't do that then you need to move out. If you move out and still want to have sex with him, then go for it. But I doubt it will be as interesting to you if you aren't living with him. Which is why Im saying you are just horny, and that's basically it, so go get it elsewhere instead of complicating this relationship with your ex who is now your room-mate.
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