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My ex always goes running back to his sister!

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Question - (13 March 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *aykay writes:

Hi me and my ex split up last year after i met his sister as it all got to much for me, we have been trying to get back togther but never get anytime just me and him, because everytime we arrange something his sister makes him babysit her kids which annoys me even more cause shes still in the house while he's babysitting.

He says he loves me but always goes running back to her i can't take any more but i love him what should i do?

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A female reader, kaykay United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2007):

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just wanted to let u know me and my ex sat down and had a chat last night and he is no longer my ex we are back togther and he's told me things are gonna change between him and his sister when it comes to me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007):

You can walk away, that's silly talk, never be so dependent on a person that you cannot walk away from them. Come on girl have some backbone!!

Take care and keep in touch if you want

xx

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A female reader, kaykay United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2007):

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i cnt walk away though he's my live he's the only one ive trusted for months.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007):

Walk away, you will feel better for it in the long run.

take care

xx

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A female reader, kaykay United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2007):

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he is 28. his sister is the only family he has that is close to him and she is very contolling over him i stayed with him last night and she called every five mins to see why he wasnt there, maybe its cause of what he used to do which im not gonna mention but i keep getting a funny feeling that there is somthing going on between him and her. because if i call his phone and he's at hers he's not allowed to answer it or talk to me for more thn five mins.

ive tried to walk away we both have due to the arguments but one of us gives in everytime.

i cry for hours over him and i know its sad.

but this is driving me to drink maybe u'll think thats no excuse to go drinking but its the only way i forget the problems but by the end of the night im back at his and then the next day the same again.

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A female reader, elsie United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2007):

elsie agony auntuuurrrgghhhh ive heard some excuses in my time but that just takes the biscuit.how about you arrange a date between the pair of you which remains private?or does his sister keep tabs on every move he makes?in which case he isnt relationship or even dating material.clear the decks and meet someone who doesnt answer to anyone.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

His sister doesn't MAKE him babysit. He chooses to do so. Actually, it sounds like he is just using that as an excuse and she is in on it. Just my take on it. But for real no one MAKES anyone babysit.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

How old is he? he sounds very immature. She must be his older sister. Well, i would have a long chat with him and tell him to grow up or the next arguement might be the last. You are not prepared to sit back while he runs off to his sisters. You deserve better and don't want this kind of behavour. He has to shape up or ship out.

Take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007):

How old is he? he sounds very immature. She must be his older sister. Well, i would have a long chat with him and tell him to grow up or the next arguement might be the last. You are not prepared to sit back while he runs off to his sisters. You deserve better and don't want this kind of behavour. He has to shape up or ship out.

Take care

xx

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