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male
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36-40,
*cm
writes:I have a full hard on im fingering my girlfriend then i take my pants down and gone... what should i do it's killin me
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Hi,Dont panic this does happen to alot of men mine included, i find that if you relax completely you need to clear your mind and forget all the other times that it has gone wrong.Start with touching your naked bodies together and gently kiss each others body, The first time that you try this don't follow up with sex even if its standing to attention! This does take time but you will find that soon it will no longer go down, (i know that it is easier said than done but it does work, don't be too hard on yourself cause the more you focus on the problem the worse it will be) And remember just RELAX it will happen in the end!!All the bestLu x
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reader, Sandman  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 Well, the first thing is to not panic. The fact that you're actually obtaining an erection is good. I don't think you'll be needing Viagra or anything like that.
So, it might something as simple as you needing some touching and rubbing and kissing and caressing before sex. After you've gotten her all worked up, she needs to get you worked up. Or you can get each other worked up at the same time via mutual masturbation (she does you while you do her). The "69" position is another good way to get each others engines revved up.
But more importantly, I'm sure this isn't the first time this has happened which means that you're probably thinking about when you getting ready to do the deed. If so, try not to think about the fact that you MIGHT lose your erection. Think about the physical act of sex, the feeling, the emotion, the pleasure and really focus on those. If you can block out all the things that cause you stress and anxiety (i.e. erection losing your erection) then you might be able to maintain your erection long enough to penetrate your partner.
Hope this helps.
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