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My doc doesn't approve of my motives so how can I tell if I'm pregnant?

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Question - (12 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi

im late by about 2 weeks on my period . i have been having pains in my stomach nearly everyday . im supposed to start the 21-day pill on my next period..is there anyway i can use this to regulate my period without it starting ? i cant go back to the docter because doc didnt approve of my motives..and im always very careful..im just not feeling right tho can anyone help ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):

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yes thank you. how long should i take it for before going off it for the 7 days ? i havent been on it before . i have been in pain for a while now tho ..stomach area..

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (13 April 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntI still don't get what you are trying to do.

Induce your period? I know that women sometimes use the pill to change their cycle so they are not menstruating during a holiday, no idea how, that is "need to know information" and I do NOT need to know.

But then what is this about tests? Pregnancy tests?

The pill only stops you getting pregnant, if you think you are pregnant there is nothing the pill can do.

The morning after pill should be taken within days of sex.

I don't see what business it is of your doctor wether you are on the pill or not especially since you are an adult. IF you just want to use the pill as regular birth control then that is your right as a free woman, no business of his. Talk to a different doctor, possibly via a special organisations like woman support or sexual education center or however these things are arranged in Ireland.

If you just want to use the pill to control your period, that is perfectly valid as well and lots of women apparently do this. Nothing wrong with it either.

Does he have medical reasons to object? Some women react badly to some form of pills, but surely he would mention this, especially since you would be the one reporting any negative sympthoms to him first.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):

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ok sorry it came out a little wrong, sorry..(doesnt think i should be on the pill)but mostly im afraid of getting into trouble....from the people around me if i express my worry..and the focus of the question is more is there a way to induce my period? regulate it using the pill...im to afraid to buy any tests....

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (12 April 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntGet a different doctor, his business is NOT to question your reasoning.

Since the pill to my knowledge can't be used for either suicide/murder/abortion he has nothing to object too.

Demand another doctor and report this one for breaching the code of conduct doctors are supposed to maintain. Unless Ireland is a LOT more primitive then other west european countries him commenting on your motives for taking the pill are WAY out of line and a serious violation of ethical standards.

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