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writes: My dad and my BF do not get along well at all. They don't fight out loud, but My father makes it obvious he doesn't like my BF staying around. I have been lying to my dad about me and my BF, saying we're just friends so he will let him around, but lately my dad's distaste for him has grown. What do I do! It's so difficult! If my dad finds out we were going out he won't have him around ever, but even thinking that we decided to just be friend my dad and Bf still don't get along and make it obvious. I don't want to split up my family, but I want to be around my guy without worry. I'm 18 and I can't even cuddle on my bf shoulder on the couch or my dad freaks!We were thinking of renting together with a friend, with separate rooms, but my dad would still have a fit and feel I defied him and choose BF over Dad.HELP!
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 what you really need to do is talk to your dad about this
he obviously is very protectiveover you and loves you alot
i think he just doesnt want to see yo be hurt and like most dads dont want to think of you in this way but he needs to let you go and relises yo are not a child no more and you have your own mind sit him down and exspalin that you and your boyfriend are together if he kicks of and shiut just say look we love each other alot and if i cant see him thne i am leaving becaue i am my own person if he doesnt take it then rent the place with your friend he will come around because he wont want to loose you
good luck xxx
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