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writes:hi I'm a girl of 16, my parents have split up recently and I now live with my dad.Me and my dad have always been close and me and my friends have always thought him to be a cool dad, all my friends fancy himbut recently hes been acting a little strange since mum has gone out the house. He's taken to walking around the house nude and generally being naked a lot the time around the house when I am home.The other day I was taking a shower when my dad came in and started using the toilet, I was worried at first but he spoke to me casually as he normally did. I lent out the curtain a bit to speak to him and tell him to leave. As he left Ii caught him giving me eye, I know this is all very weird, but the real problem here is that I kind of like it. Am I wierd? What should I do?k thanks xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): Talk to your Dad about this. Get him to take you to McDonalds or somewhere and have a heart-to-heart talk with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): It's been a while since you posted this question. Is your dad still engaging in this behavior? If so, another good place to ask this question is the Go Live Wire Teen Forum at www.golivewire.com. You can register there and post messages. You might want to post this question in both the Teen Sexuality and Family and Friends forum. There are lots of teenagers, including girls, there who can give you advice about this problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): Well, actually the question is; is her Dad a naturist? Because if he is then this explains the entire deal and if he is then there's nothing wrong with it. On the other hand, if he's not a naturist then I still don't see anyhing wrong as long as he's not erect or touching her while he's naked. There's should be no shame about being nude in your own house?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): At your age, it is normal to like seeing a man naked, especially a grown man, even if it is your dad. Also, the fact that your dad given you the eye makes it a taboo situation and somewhat forbidden, so that makes you feel a little naughty, which is why you kind of like it.
What I need to ask is this: is what you enjoy about seeing your dad naked is seeing his penis? Also, does he get an erection when he is around you naked? And are you having sexual thoughts about your father? Again, this would be somewhat normal, probably because at your age you have not seen many grown men naked. Also, do you mind if your dad sees YOU naked?
I say as long as you're comfortable seeing your dad naked, it's probably not a big deal. Please post back if you have more questions.
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reader, Intrigued40s  +, writes (2 January 2009):
To me this is the dad posting as if he is the daughter. It may be just a fantasy he has and he just posted to see what others say about it. A 16 year old woman wouldn't comment like that. Why if the parents split would a mother live the daughter with the father? "she" also says that the father is acting "a little" strange A little sounds as if is not a big deal. Do you think a teenager would find this behavior just a little bit strange? Don't you think that if a dad were not that normal the daughter would know him since long time ago? If in reallity this dad is alone with a daughter and he is giving her the eye he probably has been giving her the eye since long time ago, maybe when she started developing into a teenager and she most likely would now by know that she can't be alone with him. On the other "she" share with us that the real problem is that she kind of like it. Like it what? that her father walks around naked? That he father got in the bathroom when she was talking a shower? I bet "she" is going to say later that she touched his erect penis and that she is confused.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Ekk, that is kinda creepy. You need to tell your dad that is is NOT ok for him to walk around in the noddy when you are home or have friends over. Secondly - lock the darn bathroom door when you take a shower. If there is no lock on it you need to tell him to please respect your privacy when you shower.Do you know an adult you can trust who you can talk this out with?
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