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writes: OK, I need to clarify my question before. Sorry I was in a bit of a rush. I have a crush on guy A, which can't go anywhere due to the fact he has a girlfriend and also that he doesn't see me that way. My problem is I hang out with both, and when I do, guy A's best friend, guy B, is a pain in the ass to me. Like I said before, he's just always irritating me on purpose and saying things like how he knows me so well, etc. I don't mind hanging out with him, but my problem is I find myself thinking more about guy B when the night ends than guy A. And I don't know why this is because I don't like him, he just bugs me. I'm just wondering how to stop thinking about him. (It's not a crush feeling when I think about him really; it's more like analyzing what it is that irritates me). I'm sorry ive confused things. Thanks to those who tried to help me already!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (18 March 2006):
 It seems like you may have some feelings for the friend, although you are finding it hard to understand them. We usually find that the ones we care about most are the ones we think about most. Now this thinking about doesn't have to be good thoughts - the fact that we think about them at all means we have some feeling for them.
It's like the little kids in playground, the little boys always try to annoy the girls they like but can't understand or channel these feelings, as they are too young yet. I think he likes you, as he obviously pays you a lot of attention, although it isn't quite the kind of attention you'd like!!!
But I do think also, you may be starting to have some feelings for him. If you didn't, you would simply ignore him and what he has said that night or how he has acted will not be an issue for you, you simply wouldn't care.
I think you need to stop hanging around will both these guys and move on. A's got a girlfriend and obviously has no intention of finishing with her and B, well he just annoys and confuses you!!! Go find some other guys to hang with.
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