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My coworker is an unhappy marriage, should I tell her I like her?

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Question - (9 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am bisexual, my coworker and friend knows I gave big hints. I really like her she's in a unhappy / abusive marraige. We have had a connection always touching each other hands 2 her complmenting my voice. She and I have a eye connection thing going on -she waits till I look at her and vice versa till we have and hold it for a bit then she goes about her biz. I gave her space thinking thats what she wanted it seemed like a wall was up. Although, we could both not help but to peek at each other, and her face would turn red. WE had a talk 2 weeks later, I had a gift for her. I gave it to her and she told me I give so- much and said she never gives me anything, I said I never asked for anthing, she responded by saying ___ either did I - then she said no I do give something my LOVE and then softly a pause then she said friendship. I felt she was not talking about the gift I gave her- but of our connection. When I was about to leave she said "keep in touch with me please"...

I said I would.

I really like her I dont know what to make of it.

Do you think she has the same feelings as I ( attracted to me) or do you think that was her way of saying keep your distance just friends...

what should I do? Do I tell her the way I feel?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009):

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I want to say "Thanks" maybe I have pursed her-

I feel the same about the ring. Thats why I gave space-

But now when she walks by it's terrible because I feel so much energy heck I don't know how 2 describe it's terrible- it radiates off of her 2 me. I am thinking about transfering out of the area.

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