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I have a relationship with an older woman but she is hesitant to have sex, what can I do?

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Question - (9 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2009)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, there,

I have a good relationship with an older woman. I have mentioned that I would like to have sex with her. She says that I just want to try sex with an older woman. While I do want the experience of sex with an older woman I would like to do it with her in particular. How can I make her think that I not just interested in sex with an older woman but with her in particular?

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (10 February 2009):

Fatherly Advice agony auntSo, is it true? are you a collector? or is it real? are you going to be making a long term commitment to a monogamous relationship. What has happened is that you have run into someone who doesn't fall for all your (games/lines/schemes). Whichever applies. She is an older experienced woman. At this point in her life she knows what she wants. For some reason she doesn't believe that you can supply it. Therefore she is unwilling to give you sex. She probably values it a bit more than you do. She is saving it for someone who can give her what she wants. Now, do you know what she wants? And, more importantly, can you give it to her? You can't "make" her believe in you without proving it to her.

In the terms of the oldest story. In this case there is no free milk, you will have to buy the cow.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

I think you already expressed that and she said NO.

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