| A
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: There's this female co-worker that flirts with me all the time. She doesn't know that I'm married. I do like the attention. I tell her that to back off a lot. My co-worker flirting with me again. Then my wife (who doesn't about my co-worker) randomly show up (I forget my lunch that day) caught us. She didn't really say much until I got home she say that she cant trust me anymore. She make me sleep in the guest room. And hasn't really talked to me a bit. Also she been cheated on before with her ex-husband. Any tips?
View related questions:
co-worker, flirt, her ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI been trying to make it up to my wife. By taking her out, sending her flowers at her work. I took the day off just to spend time with her and she still says she can't trust me. I did talk to my co-worker about it and we to need act more professional but she still flirts with me. How can I gain her trust back?
A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Why haven't you TOLD her you're married? Seems like you don't really want her to stop, huh?
You need to tell her you're married and committed to your wife, and then you need to do some serious work to assure your wife you're not cheating. What do you mean by '[she] caught us'? Were you flirting back or what?
...............................
|
