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*ndy_2008
writes:I loved this girl and we went out for 7 months. Then we moved to opposite ends of the country. She joined a strange sales, marketing company thats bit like a cult. I went there to be with her and live and work with her, but we fell out about the job. She told me to pack my bags but didnt say it was over as such. She went to work with all her buddies. Sent me a text 'i love u' after i had apologised and all. So i thought everything was ok. But she came back early. Got 2 guys she lives with to throw me out. Said nothing to me since, this was end of September. I just got a call from this guy saying shes with him now. Im shocked anyone can be so cruel over a minor fall out. I wake early thinking about it, ive become reclusive. Should i get help? Ive decided to not try to talk to her anymore, should i wait to try get her back? Am i right to think that this totally isnt right how shes treated me?
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reader, Andy_2008 +, writes (5 November 2008):
Andy_2008 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your points of view. I was affected by it cos we were close and she was nice before so its hard to deal with. Part of me wants to do something back but what i have done is in the first 2 to 3 weeks, called, text, internet msgs. But it died down and ignore her like she has me now. The first reply har a point that i think also that she has a problem. I know her parents split and i know some girls that were her friend now aremt cos of her attitude. She works for cobra group in UK, or in the US 'DS Max' and they brainwash people, she was working 70 hours a week. Have a search about it, not sure how much that affected her attitude.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 November 2008):
She sounds like she's lost it.
What a nutcase.
However I think you are over reacting about the whole thing.
You got thrown out and then you got a phone call. It wasn't nice but I think you were better off out of that life to be honest.
Accept that everything happens for a reason and then stop being so weak about it. Get on with your life. She's gone and that's a good thing.
Move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, fab40  +, writes (5 November 2008):
OMG Your kidding me, right? You are questioning your own judgement. Of course she is not treating you right. Why are you even thinking about her? She sounds like she wants attention. So have you stopped to think that maybe, you are worth getting more respect and attention from someooe that has respect for themselves? Absolutely! As I would always hear my mother tell my four brothers..
Those girls who keep calling you, are the ones you want to stay away from. They are the ones who can get you into trouble. My mom had names for those girls (FASTASS GIRLS)
Now do you want to bring one of those girls home to meet your mama?
Move on dear, she's not worth it.
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