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anonymous
writes:It's been four months since finding out that my partner had been cheating on me with numerous different women. At the point of finding out I was relieved I wasn't going crazy because I had suspected he had been up to no good for sometime but couldn't prove it. I decided to give him a second chance and try and make a go of the relationship, for me, him and our daughter. Things were going fine, we starting going on dates again to get us back on track and just spending quality time together as a family. I'm not sure where things went wrong but I feel like he may be cheating again, he gets really angry with me stating he loves me and that he isn't doing anything anymore. I really want to believe him, it's just really difficult because he killed every ounce of trust and he doesn't help because when we have an argument he tells that one of the women in particular was prettier than me and that he could still have her if he wanted. That hurts me immensely and puts fuel to the fire and I have horrible images running around my head constantly. I do love him and I want to work things through, I need to know if there is anyone who has gone/going through the same situation and if with a lot of work the relationship can be repaired. Or should I walk away now before more damage is done to me mentally.look forward to any advice given.xx Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (22 August 2008):
 He is worried now you turn right round and will cheat on him back! So he will put you down enough to make your confidence very low, thus securing you thinking you wont do better and stick with him.
Just a guess mind you.
C xxxxx
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