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writes: me and my fiancee of 4 years are 2 months pregnancy.we are in a distance relationship, he is in africa and i am in europe.but all of a sudden he has changed.he seems not to care anymore about me, he goes partying until morning, but b4 the pregnancy we chatted until morning.what can i do to help our relationship?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Dear Reader in Need,
To help your relationship I would try and communicate more with him. Tell him how you feel about him, tell him you want this Babys' daddy to be there for him/her. Understand this from your Partners' point of veiw. He is in this amazing place where he can relax and just go mad but keeps in getting nagged by his partner who just rants on and on and on... That's probably what he sees it as.
Try talking to him about things that interest him, or talking about what to name the baby if it's a boy or if it's a girl. Tell him you're missing him and before you hang up tell him you love him.
One of my very "close" friends has been in South Africa for ages and he comes home tomorrow so I kind of know what you're going through but not exactly as I'm not pregnant but all the best
Hope the Baby is healthy and as I am sure, beautiful!
Phoebe
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 My first thought would be move to Africa. Long Distance Relationships can be tough. Now add in the pregnancy. That's tough. He may be stressed out about it and wants to relieve it by partying..
What is in order is going to have to communication. If you want to keep this relationship, you are going to have to have a talk with him. And it has to be a 2 way talk. You need to tell him how you feel and he needs to tell you how he feels.
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