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writes: My bf won't tell his parents we're back together. Last time we were together they bought him off and he broke up with me. Now we're back together after a few years and of course, both of us have changed. His parents, however, have not. They still hate me and I still am not truly fond of them. He casually mentioned my name the other day and they flipped out. I am deeply in love with him and he says he is with me. He also says he wants to have a future with me. I resent being a closet gf though. What should I do???
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reader, *lola* +, writes (4 July 2006):
 If they lovetheir son they would want to see him happy even if it means that he goes out with you.There not the one your going out with it's their son and if he's happy with you they should be too! Discuss this with your bf. His parents should back off and let him go out with who ever he wants to.
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reader, Beatlesfan1981 +, writes (3 July 2006):
Beatlesfan1981 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthey blame me for him getting a tattoo and dropping out of college. none of which was my fault. he's 25 and they still control his money, his apt, his life on the weekends, etc. he's divorced and they have said that if he gets a roommate, he's cut off. if he moves in with another girl he's cut off. if he gets back together with me, well...you get the idea.everytime they call, i have to be quiet and stay in the other room. it's the same crap he pulled in college and I'm getting tired of it. I am very much in love with him, but am tired of hiding from them.
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (2 July 2006):
 join the club i know the feeling well
all you can do is ask your boyfriend to arrange a meeting with his parents so you can go and talk to them together explain how you feel about eachother and try to talk it through with them
saying that i know how stubborn parents can be and you might get somewhere you might not but you can try they cant stop you from seeing eachother so if they want to keep there son they'l have to accept you relationship together.
but why do they hate you so much in the first place there must be a reason did you do something to hurt there son?
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