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writes:I have been in a relationship for a year and a month only to turn out that my boyfriend’s mother doesn’t like me, gets disrespectful with me and tells the other family members shit bout me which isn’t true, when all I’ve been to all of them is nothing but been nice, if anything goes wrong between the mother and the son, she’s gonna text me something disrespectful, which sometimes I spend my night crying bout things she said to me, my boyfriend knows bout all this but he still wouldn’t want me breaking up with him, I need an advice guys, even though I still love him
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2018): I think your next move depends on your boyfriends reaction to it. If he tells her how it’s going to be and is supportive of you 100% then you can still have a happy relationship. If he’s still catering to her, run. It isn’t going to get better. You can’t make her like you and like the other poster said, she’s probably jealous that you stole him from her. That won’t change. And it’ll be worse when you are married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2018): Get out and get out now.She is jelous of you taking her baby boy.Baby boy needs to tell her now to knock that off or he will cut her off.My mil was the same. She hated me and my kids because we stole her son.Mind you my kids were his so they were her grandchildren but they came out of me so she hated them and let them know it.unless your boyfriend tells her like it is you must say goodbye.Mine used to tell tall tails and lie about me too.What is wrong with some women...geeze.My son has a girlfriend and because of the witch I know how not to treat her. Really all you need to know is does your man have your back.If he is too afraid of his mommy to stand up for you then run.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 August 2018):
 Have a word with his mother alone and tell her how upset you are that she doesn't like you. Ask her why she feels that way and explain to her how much you love her son and how you want to be part off the family. If she is still being nasty to you then my only suggestion would be to ignore the messages she sends and try and avoid going to her house. Try not to get upset at her messages, she is the one with the problem not you. Ignore any nasty messages.
It is difficult being in a relationship when the parents have problems, but it doesn't mean you should end it, just try a bit harder with her and hopefully it will resolve. Kill it with kindness and just be friendly when you see her. But please do try and talk to her.
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