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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi, i am a little confused with my relationship at the moment. i have met some really nice men, and 2 of my exes are still in the picture, i have been talking to them a great deal more than my bf recently. my bf has taken a bit of a back-burner while my attention focuses on these men. my bf has started noticing that my attention isnt on him, one of the men told him what i had said, and that is: my bf is boring to talk to, he dosent know how to flirt anymore, he dosent keep my interest. but its porobably my fault, i dont make much effort with him anymore and he has not got a lot to talk about with me because i dont really throw him a line. in the last month or so...hes just not bothered to make effort to talk, this is the first week that he hasnt spoke or text me. we normally see eachother on weekends, last weekend i blew him off to see one of the guys i had been speaking to because he really cheers me up, my bf just said 'ok, he then followed up with you dont have much interest in me anymore, do you? and drove off' dont get me wrong, i love my man, he has a heart of gold, i do take advantage of that sometimes, i told him that i wouldnt hurt him and i am still his gf. he also says that i dont say that i love him anymore.. which is true, i dont feel that i need to. i guess i treat him more as a friend from his point of view? i do feel guilty for it, but i cannot help but feel my bf is a bit of a stick in the mud, no personality, boring lifestyle and no money to do fun things...i think the ecitement of talking to these men has made me push my bf to one side...how to i bring him back into the forefront of my relationship with him or has my laxk of comms edfort marred things?sencereily - dosent know what shes doing to him
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reader, Hungry89  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 OKAY. coming from a guy who has been in this position ONE i would break up with your ass for even talking to your exes. TWO im really sick of girls taking advantage of good guys cant you just be about him? take the time to talk to him really..sounds like you gave it fifty percent..it takes 200 percent 100 from him and 100 from you
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