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female
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30-35,
*jessicathejedi
writes:So I have a new boyfriend. We're been dating since January and things are getting serious and they're going good! BUT there is a girl he calls his "friend" she's like 19.. She home wrecked my friend (not close friends) family.. As soon as she turned 18 he divorced his wife and purposed to this girl.. None of this is my business of course but it does say a lot to me about her. I've known her since 3rd grade we were never close friends are even friends. She always feels the need to comment his pictures and express how much she sees him and talks to him.. And recently I was with my boyfriend and I saw a little kissy face in a message between both of them. I'm not sure who sent it. But it upset me because I don't trust that girl and she makes me uncomfortable and honestly her past has a lot to do with that. Now I'm question whether I'm overreacting or if I even trust my boyfriend! I care about him so much and I know he cares about me. Is it unfair for me to not want anything to do with that girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2013): Did she have a mutual relationship with the man that divorced?If she did.. Then don't judge her. You don't know why she did what she did how it happened.. Not to mention she was/is young the married guy might have manipulated her without her realizing. Things like that happens A LOT. One day it'll hit her and bad things might happen.. You said she's like 19.. The man is the only one at fault even if she knew what she was doing.. In the future she'll look back and regret most likely.If she didn't.. Give her a break.. It wasn't her fault.If it bothers you a lot. Talk about it with your boyfriend. But don't tell him to talk to his friend less or anything just talk to him about it. Tell him what bothers you and that you'll try to keep it down. Depending on what he says and does you'll know if you should stay with him or not.
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