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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone I have always been told I'm attractive which I don't see as I don't think I am I've never been very confident in myself my boyfriend of 18 months was saying yesterday that good looking who could be supermodels probably treat there boyfriends like rubbish then he said to me you never have to worry about that so now I don't feel like he finds me attractive this has really knocked my confidence how do I talk to him about this thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2015): Ask him what he meant. Just be level headed and say that his comment is effectively implying you are not attractive. Then wait for his answer
Listen carefully, he was , like the other aunt said , saying that your not stuck up but like you said , the way he said it was ' your not stick up ve aide you don't look like them'.
So does he think you're not as attractive as those women? That's pretty much what he said and how I would take it if a man said that to me, but perhaps he meant it differnetly , ask him.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (8 August 2015):
 In a non accusing, matter of fact tone, ask him what he meant by the remark. Do it soon so this doubt doesn't fester.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2015): He meant you're not stuck up like they are, not that you aren't attractive. At least that's how I would take his statement. I'd simply ask him to elaborate if you're unsure.
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