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My boyfriend wants to have sex for the 1st time

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Question - (4 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now and he thinks we should have sex but I'm a little scared because it's my 1st time and I'm also a little scared that I might get Pregnant, I mean I do love my boyfriend but I don't know what I should do????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009):

if you have to ask... then id say your not ready to have sex with him!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009):

You are between 18 and 21. You are a legal adult.

You shouldn;t need to be scared. Use protection (condoms, the pill and all that) and do lots of foreplay and making out first to get you lubricated and in the mood and you'll be fine.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, kayli United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2009):

kayli agony aunthi,

You and ur boyfriend may be in love but are both of u ready for it? unless the answers yes i wouldnt. U might not be ready for it ....but on the other hand if u deside to have sex then make sure u use the correct protection!this will save u any worrys u have about becoming pregnant.

so basically unless ur ready dnt do it sometimes ur body and mind isnt ready for it either ....u wil just have to expalin it to ur boyfriend and if he truly loves u he will wait unill ur ready x

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